God has placed a calling on every man's life...
WILL YOU ANSWER IT?
"Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love."
1 Corinthians 16:13-14
A BATTLE-TESTED PATH TO STREGTH, COMPASSION AND INFLUENCE
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTION
Who This Book Is For?
• Men tired of the macho checklist and ready to lead with moral authority and tenderness
• Husbands and fathers who want practical models for integrity and emotional courage
• Pastors and mentors seeking language to shepherd men out of abusive patterns and into faithful service
• Anyone looking for a spiritually grounded approach to resilience that doesn’t sacrifice virtue for toughness
What This Book Delivers
• A personal, hard-won roadmap from a life raised under harsh masculine expectations to a mature, grace-filled manhood.
• Practical spiritual formation that blends Christian conviction, Stoic clarity, and chivalric courage into everyday practice.
• Break-the-cycle strategies for men trapped in destructive family patterns, with concrete steps to rebuild integrity and emotional maturity.
• Tools for real-life leadership at home, work, and church; rooted in faith, shaped by trial, and proven in relationship.
• A legacy plan for men who want influence that endures, not domination that destroys.
When Can I Expect My Life To Change by Reading and Applying The Lessons in This Book?
As you begin to apply the lessons from "Resilient Grace," you may notice positive changes in your life quite quickly. The journey toward personal transformation is ongoing, and the book provides practical tools and insights to help you make meaningful progress. By consistently practicing the values and principles outlined, you can expect to see improvements in your relationships, personal fulfillment, and overall sense of purpose.
Why This Book Works
Gerry Contrino writes not from ideology but from lived experience. Raised the youngest of ten in a Canadian-Italian Catholic household, he survived domination, silence, and the pressure to perform toughness at all costs. Instead of merely reacting, Gerry rebuilt his soul, integrating spiritual disciplines, Stoic practices, and a chivalrous code that honors others. That journey becomes your guide: honest, unvarnished, and ultimately hopeful.
What Our Readers Are Saying
Gerry,
I really enjoyed the book. The examples from your personal life drew me in. The concepts of chivalry, stoicism form a great foundation for Christian men to base their lives on. The chapters were well organized and helpful.
I think it is a well written book that lays out a good plan in discipleship for men.
Ed Murphy
Personal Friend, Spitual Leader
"Having watched my father live out the very principles he writes about, I can say with complete confidence that this book is more than just words on a page - it’s a reflection of a life committed to chivalry, faith, and grace. The lessons and themes written here are not theoretical; they're lived wisdom. The product of decades of discipline, humble leadership, and a loving heart anchored in Christ. For young men seeking to understand what it means to lead with integrity, to serve with purpose, and to live as Jesus did, this book offers both inspiration and a practical roadmap."
Domenic Contrino
My Son, Environmental Engineer
I felt very inspired by the book, the simplicity and explanation of how I viewed myself as a Man, a Husband, a father, and Neighbor. You have obvious Insite thru your experiences and trust in God the Father. I like that it is broken down in short chapters that I can review easily. Most books are usually very long and filled with stories of how each viewpoint is relatable, I did not need this in the way this is written. Reviewing the chapter is like reviewing my notes. Clear and to the point. Thank you. Very well written.
Steven Jilek
Friend
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What if .. the cost of becoming a Resilient man of strength
didn't mean losing your heart?
Resilient Grace shows how to fuse uncompromising courage
with deep-hearted compassion so you can lead, protect,
and leave a legacy that honors both faith & character
Who am I?
Gerry Contrino
Gerry is an NLP Certified practitioner and coach, specializing in Time Line Therapy® and Hypnotherapy, with over 20 years of experience as an Investment Real Estate Consultant and Developer. Known for his humility and compassion, Gerry is deeply committed to guiding others on their personal journeys as a Jesus-following, God-fearing man. Beyond his professional achievements, he treasures his roles as a loving husband, father, and grandfather, always striving to lead by example with kindness and understanding. With a heart for service and a genuine desire to uplift those around him, Gerry dedicates his life to fostering growth and resilience in others. Connect with Gerry to discover more about his inspiring mission and heartfelt approach.
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